Sometimes, we walk in and out of people’s lives thinking we could’ve been a better friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband or anyther form of relational connection to a person. We lose sight of what really matters in relationships. WE seem to focus on our mistakes and not on the ones we can take away and use to better our relationships with others. I’ve been one suspect to this trap. What did i do wrong? what could’ve made her stay? that sort of thing. Those are good questions to ponder on but we cannot take the bait of beating ourselves in the head for not doing a good job. we struggle with the idea that we made a horrible mistake. The hardest part is moving from that to accepting that there are things that just would not work out no matter how hard we try.